The BIG SIGNS You Should KEEP TRYING With Him | Matthew Hussey
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Published 2020-11-07
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Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is?
Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him? And what about after the date…
Should you let him know you’d like to see him again if you felt the date went well but he’s not being proactive about setting up another one?
Where is the line between showing a guy you like him, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested?
It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple.
You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?”
It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the video, so make sure you watch it through.
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All Comments (21)
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When you're chasing someone, it means that someone is running away from you. Get the hint.
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When he said "someone can't be that great that you have to keep chasing them" I felt that
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You let him know ONCE that you like him. That's it. If he doesn't pursue you...he's not INTERESTED.
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I want to know where that coffee shop is, that Matthew keeps talking about, where the coffee is delicious and the men seem great 😂 ☕️
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"You can't have someone who's great for a relationship but doesn't invest." YES!
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I'm a guy, and I've been watching a lot of your content the last couple of months. And even though your target audience is female, and I am a guy, I've learnt so much from you, because I'm starting to understand the female side so much better now. thank you for this
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I'd love for Matt to address this: The only guys who seem interested in investing are guys whom I'm not attracted to. So I tell them I'm not interested. Then, I find a few men who I am actually physically/intellectually/pheromonally attracted to and they don't really want to invest. So I end up chasing a little until I realize that's what's happening and I stop. It's just frustrating. I have my life together in so many ways, so I want a partner who's in the same place. I've been ready to commit for years, but the men around me seem to be content with a never-ending cycle of honeymoon phases. Once they realize that they're going to have to communicate, compromise, and even change a little bit, they're out - because they can find another slightly younger and less wiser female who will go through the cycle with them all over again.
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GOLDEN THOUGHTS (video's summary): 🔸️Invest in who invests in you. 🔸️Invest and then test. 🔸️We don't do enough communicating but we do too much chasing.
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" in dating the problem is we don't do enough communicating, we do too much chasing"- so well said 👏👏👏
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Can we just talk about how serene the background looks?
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I think this applies to any relationship, like friendships.
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I have to say that "in the blue" thing is absolutely epic. After I watched that video some time ago, I'm always measuring the blue in my texts.
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Its like with a dog: you run after it, it runs away. You run away, it goes after you 😀😀
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Someone said “I like you but don’t want to lead you on.” At this point I feel like I should completely pull away.
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Now all I need to do is find a man who's willing to invest in me.....
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If love cannot stand the test of time, then it has failed the test of love.
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Chasing is investing continuously without them investing back. Courting someone is you investing a bit in them, and they invest a bit in you, doesn't matter who makes the first move. And for sure only continue so as long as you're getting the return, almost like any business deal 😂 Thanks Matt, always an inspiration for my channel.
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""How can someone be so great that you continue to chase them "" that's deep
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I always find myself back here rewatching this video to remind myself not to invest in someone who isn't willing to invest in me. My energy has been sucked dry and now that I have ended things I'm regaining it back! Know your worth people. There are better people out there who will appreciate you and what you have to offer. Stand your ground.
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Am I the only one who hits the like button before even listening coz he s good.!!? I just love this guy.
