Asking my husband questions girls are too afraid to ask | Ep. 45

I have disagreed with Matt so much this episode, come on man you’re representing all of us guys here 😂. Care what they wear in the bedroom? That’s a no. Care if they lose weight after the baby? That’s a no. Do we mean it when we like them with no makeup? That’s a yes, legitimately mean that. Does it feel different after a baby down there? That’s a no, I’m just happy to be invited back. Intimacy after a baby? The mother of my kids must just be different, I’m not gloating, but they initiated soon after. Bless her, and likely why we have two teens that are barely separated by a year 😅. To be fair during and after the pregnancy I was likely the best person to her. Did everything I could, massages, meals, running a bath, late night runs to about 4 places to get what she wanted, setting up steam rooms with aromatherapy, everything I could do I did before the baby. After the baby I did every nighttime feeding and let them sleep. Breastfeeding was difficult so I did daytime feedings too when I wasn’t at work. Anytime I was home I would do every diaper change and rock them to sleep for their nap. That kinda thing is important, they just wrecked their body for 9 months to bring a child to the world. They deserve every ounce of compassion and time to recover.

He’s so young and this video SHOWS it

I would cry myself to sleep after his answers

Definitely shallow answers, but he also married who he married because he knows she’s there to please him and his expectations. I will say I’ve definitely met men who are better looking and have better personalities who don’t care about a woman’s weight or appearance!! Don’t let this guy speak for all! And ladies be glad this guy is off the market 😂

Matt sounds like he learned everything he knows about sex from porn.

Matt seems to need a lot of time to grow. Granted he’s still so young. It amazes me sometimes that I’m older than them. It feels like I’m a decade older based off our mindsets and maturity but it’s literally only 2 years. Also. He shouldn’t speak for all guys. There was a lot in this episode that they wouldn’t claim.

Girl, RUN

When Matt said it’s sometimes a good thing to care about looking good for your spouse, I fully agree but I also think that no matter how comfortable you are in a marriage, you should also care about looking/feeling good just for yourself. Not only for your spouse. After all, it’s easier to love someone who loves themself🥰

Abby is such a sweet and patient wife. The fact that she had to explain to her husband that her breasts were going to look different after she was done breastfeeding… just wow. I don’t know how old they are but it always blows my mind how men can make it into their twenties without such basic knowledge. It’s not only a problem of how we educate boys… at some point it’s also their responsibility. If they legitimately care about women and their partner, they can put in the work and do the learning themselves. Not trying to throw too much shade, I hope they are happy and I can tell he is at least receptive to the common knowledge she is sharing with him. Everyone has their own story and people have different timelines in their development. I don’t know them so I can’t pass too much judgement: As Matt said, “you’re not going to find a partner that checks every single box”, so Abby, he might fall short in a b and c, but I will give him this, he seems honest. And that’s a big one.

“Women get the better climax” LOL whos gonna tell him

8:26 Matt is absolutely in the minority about wanting the girl to play hard to get. Most guys today are fed up with girls playing games and over dating altogether, and they would absolutely melt into a puddle of joy if a girl made a move on them.

“Do whatever your partner wants” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Please have Brooklyn and Bailey with their husbands but separately!

A good loving husband would not want his wife to destroy her body and long term health for the sake of looking like the media says a woman should look. Boob jobs bring nothing but a (possible) temporary bandaid to a woman’s self-esteem/body image issues. Though you have the ability to do whatever you want, it is more loving if he expresses his appreciation for the body you have and the concerns, risks, and long term side effects of a procedure that is solely for vanity purposes. It’s not worth it, you’re worth more, and I would hope any husband would make that clear to his wife.

When sweet Abby said “the streets taught me” 😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t lol

I disagree with Matt, 😂 bc I've been married 23 years and we've been together for 27 years, AND it was absolutely love at 1st sight!!! I told my best friend that I was gonna marry him the day I met him!!! Put God 1st and always be intentional with your spouse 💕 My husband is so fun and makes me laugh daily! I feel like Matt and my hubby would definitely get along! Abby, you look amazing! Y'all are such awesome parents!!! My husband and I are more in love now than we were dating, engagement and newly married!!! Y'all are adorable! God bless y'all and Merry Christmas 🎄

Everyone has a right to their own opinion and I appreciate Matt’s honesty, but I really think (hope) a lot of Matt’s opinions change as he matures. Like think about how a woman might feel telling her it feels different having sex after babies. She birthed your children and sacrificed her body and you’re telling her it’ll never feel as good as before babies and there’s nothing she can do to change that. Honestly that’s harsh.

I'm sorry but Matt sounds extremely immature, hopefully he grows in time to teahs his sons better...the whole answer about loosing weight after a baby literally baffled me

Abbey is literally glowing. She’s so beautiful. 💙

I think the whole thing about spending more holidays on the wife’s side of family centers around the idea that women generally are better at maintaining relationships with their parents and siblings and so they make plans to go to their side where as husbands aren’t as good about keeping close or in touch as much with their family relationships.