Birthing a 10lb baby, raising three boys & life as empty nesters with my parents | Ep. 46

Published 2023-12-19
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This week Matt's parents joined the podcast again to share more stories about Matt's childhood, the experience of giving birth to Matt's older brother Caleb & how they're adjusting to their new life as empty nesters.

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Chapters:
00:00 - Episode 46
02:16 - Getting in a fight before our wedding
06:16 - How our marriage thrives as empty nesters
10:19 - Confronting my parents about cleaning
15:07 - My parents listen to every episode
19:46 - Why my parents waited to get married
23:20 - My dad never wanted to have kids
27:58 - Why I quit engineering to be a stay-at-home mom
30:34 - Questioning my parents as an 8-year-old
44:36 - Why my mom doesn't cry
48:57 - Giving birth to an over 10lb baby
52:31 - My birth experience in 1996
55:53 - My mom publicly roasts me
01:05:20 - Getting a vasectomy
01:09:27 - Why being a grandparent is the best

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All Comments (21)
  • @Sarah-um6tt
    Matt's parents could be on the podcast once a month and I wouldn't get tired of them.
  • Matt's mom is so humble, I hope she knows how awesome she is and that her accomplishments are amazing! The civil engineering degree and saying others are prettier than her, she is just so kind and that is rare!
  • @liahhope2959
    Matt show’s love by physical touch in the EXACT way his dad is you can see the mannerisms in the video it’s very sweet how healthy both their relationships are 🙌🏼
  • @tabathabrown6508
    They ARE your number 1 supports. It's really sweet to see. I can imagine Abby's parents are equally as supportive. Huge blessing
  • Love that she discussed women who have successful careers choosing to stay home with their kids if that’s what they want to do and are able to do❤️ It seems like “giving up” your career to stay at home is mostly seen as a negative thing in society but she was so well spoken
  • @user-we8kg7ib6i
    Coming from a divorced family, it's crazy the effects divorced parents have on the children's ability to create friendships and relationships with people outside the family and also within the family. It's a blessing to see this unified family and how it has influenced the future generation
  • @Sansa1999
    I love the fact that matts parents address each other as "Mom" and "Dad" ❤❤
  • @truthtalker4038
    Your parents are literally my favorite guests above all others!
  • @Sarah-sr8zw
    I really respect matt’s dad for not taking the higher pay job so that he could prioritize his family
  • @briamateo
    Matt’s mom is a badass. Engineer is my dream job. You can tell Matt looks up to his mom for her career, as I do with my mom! I want my kids to feel this way about me too.
  • @truthtalker4038
    At the end, when Matt said well you are amazing parents, I don't know why, but I suddenly teared up! They really are amazing parents, and It's so beautiful!
  • @lashawn1709
    Matt is a direct copy of his father LITERALLY😄
  • @kymoo4949
    I could listen to this all day. Every time your dad cried I started crying.
  • “We’re gonna be good to each other in this house” .. I just love that ❤ I can see the goodness and kindness throughout your family and it is just so endearing! The love is just so incredibly tangible.