Why You've Not Met Your Person - Matthew Hussey
Published 2024-04-18
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Matthew Hussey is one of the world's leading dating experts and a New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams.
In this interview turned coaching session we delve into his latest book "Love Life" and explore the challenges of finding love, handling other people’s emotional responses and the importance of setting boundaries. Enjoy!
00:00 Intro
1:15 Welcome, Matthew
4:05 Do men and women have the same challenges when looking for love?
10:15 Can you choose who to be attracted to?
17:06 “Life mountains”
26:35 Question your instincts
30:20 Masculine vs feminine energy
37:40 Boundaries
46:00 Parents vs partner
1:00:17 Duty and obligation to parents
1:11:40 Putting my needs first
1:23:30 Being responsible for someone else’s feelings
1:28:00 About finding love
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The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life - David Brooks - geni.us/Qc4PC2
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All Comments (17)
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Presenting people with the thing you think they would like instead of yourself.
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if MH has “Love Life”, AA can write “Live Life” 🎉📚
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clever and nuanced thoughts around hypergamy. Well needed. Thank you Matthew and Ali ❤
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My two favorites :face-red-heart-shape::face-red-heart-shape::face-red-heart-shape:
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Best of both worlds
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I'd love to have Matt as a friend, he's so noice
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When you’re lucky, you will meet right person ! That’s it !
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hey, behind the slim strip of downtown that displays a glitzy and glamourous dubai it is a desert. cut us some slack with the occassional cabana by the pool 😂 it’s a necessary change from sand 😅 and more sand. did i mention sand? 🤣 (I’ve bingewatched both MH’s & AA’s videos - love ya both 🙌🏻)
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Ali, about boundaries read Drama free from Nedra Twwab. Cant wait to read Love life!
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Yeh we dont have to be corralled in one narrow behaviour group all the time where one person is always in charge or always the protector or always the carer phew! We can all be human brings again! I'm not sure boxing is masculine ir feminine is it not just dangerous I mean both men and women have brains that can be damaged ! Violence us nit masculine ir feminine although violent behaviour may be performed differently.
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1st comment ( Have Been waiting for years to do this :( )
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Thought.... If todays men dont want to commit... can it be that we in the past raised our boy-kiddos to be more avoidant by raising them differently from how girls normally were raised? By telling guys to be strong, not cry etc when sad etc, maybe that matcho parenting style towards guys made them more "avoidant"? Compared to maybe girls that got a hug or whatever when they were sad as kids... Just a thought. :p If it would be in that way maybe it will be more even in the future since hopefully girls and boys are raised in more and more similar ways? (A boy can cry and get a hug as a kiddo too.. they dont have to "be strong" and "brave" and hide when they cry because they hurt their knee or whatever... and that in the future will make them more hm... normally/healty attached?
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I just started watching the video, is this one like only for men or for everyone?
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You can start watching from parent vs. partner. The beginning is quite boring. I still don't know how to find my soulmate so if that's you, please leave a message below 😂
