Narcissists Smear Campaign -HERE'S Why Everyone Believes Their LIES #narcissism

They’re all motivated by envy and jealousy. They feel inferior to you. They may also be being manipulated by the narcissist. Just as you were once under their spell.

I always tell people to do 2 things ~ Work on your mind and your body. That makes narcissists really jealous. If a pro bodybuilder walks in a room with a masters degree under his belt ~ what can anyone do??. You can't take away his muscles, you cant extract the knowledge from his mind. Work on things that are set in granite, that can't be easily destroyed or taken away by evil people. STAY FIT - STAY SMART - STAY FOCUSED ON WHATS BEST FOR YOU

I feel so vulnerable i ran away back in 2021 but the narcissists led a very hateful campaign against me i dont know how can i be stronh in this storm of evilness i have been fighting since i was a kid

This is so spot on. My ex-wife would torment me until I would become angry, stessed and anxious, but when family or friends were around she was as sweet as honey and very careful to show how loving and caring she was. Narcissism is a truly evil disorder.

In other words 'don't become what you fear'. Let them talk, let them say whatever it is that momentarily fills their empty shell. You, you don't care! Why? Because it's not who you are. You are a better person and not lowering yourself to their level takes strength and guts! It's back to trusting your intuition me thinks ✌️

Sadly. this is my family dynamic...Lies upon lies!! These master manipulators have turned my extended family against me. Finally learned to NOT engage in their tactics. Thank you for this extremely helpful explanation.

It really is evil the way they bait and provoke while maintaining to others that there's something wrong with us, igniting reactive abuse then limping around playing the victim. And they slither out of bed in the morning just to play that sort of manipulation. Plotting, scheming, sowing chaos, suspicion, hate, wallowing in the drama. Just evil.

I noticed people are allowing the narcissists to speak for more than 30 minutes. It's been found that people will become hypnotized after 45 minutes of listening.

I was married to a toxic person for over 20 years and yes it was bad most of the time, but as you brought out, I was so focused on the bad treatment I was receiving and trying to emphasize how toxic they were to me I am not believed because it is hard to convince other people that this person who they may know and have been friends with could be as bad as I say they were. But this strategy appears to be one that will work, that is, to also include some of their “good” qualities , if they are true ❤.Thanks.

They start the Very First Day you get to know them, they are working continuously to inject untruths or half truths to listeners about you. Gradually, step by step, they take your light to show themselves as better, more valuable, it is very subtle and based on assumptions.

I've fallen into these traps these people are master's at keeping us in constant state of emotional imbalance great video Michelle.🌟 Jason😋💞

Omg yes they take the moral highground play the big victim and continue to slice and dice with thier wicked tounges! Its amazing how you can present this info with such warmth and professionalism ❤

They are very skilled at manipulation. They develop the techniques that work for them, and things like sprinkling lies in among truths, or building a story of lies from a kernel of truth, are techniques that are effective and invisible to most people. And they repeat these strategies over time, over and over and over, and this is another effective persuasion strategy. The most outrageous lies are more likely to be accepted when you have heard them many times.

Damn, that is spot on to what my marriage is!!😢😢

Thank you for brilliant advice.

Thank you for this advice, Michele. Like you said, my motive is to speak the truth to my boss before I state the negative facts about my toxic assistant manager... whereas her motive is to publicly humiliate me during meetings or smear me behind my back to our boss. Luckily I've been 100% respectful to her vetbally and in writing my logical, rational recommendations -- depriving her of ammunition -- so she keeps trying to smear my performance in other nitpicking ways.

My father made it a point to take any independence, joy and excitement from my life. I used to see it as I was on the wrong track in life or something was wrong with me, but since no contact, I realized that he was trying to break me as a form of control. It's easier to control someone who does not have confidence, energy and a voice. The last straw before going no contact, he had created a reactive abuse situation as he had done my whole life. This happened because he didn't like an opinion I had, hurt me and the wretched painful anger had come out from years of abuse made me seem like a crazy woman to my family, then turned it around and asked if I was ok and if he could help me. It was at that moment I realized his game-the abuser hurts you , then wants to fix it. It's like a sick game they play to toy with you.

I can't stop investigating manipulating tactics after I learned not all people want good for others

A polarized society is a sign of a sick society.

My covert narcissist exhusband found a covert narcissist and ran me down relentlessly to everyone, I was ostracised bullied and insulted and my so called friend's were a part of it, my life is he'll. All this was done at tennis which is all I have, the stuff I've been through is endless.