The Speaking Expert: How To Speak So Everyone Hears You! Julian Treasure

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As a psychotherapist, I listen for a living and speak with conscious intention. This speaker has refreshed my commitment to always improving my skills and remembering, moment by moment, that my presence, the embodiment of honest, authenticity, integrity, and listening, is the very means of the service I offer

Stephen you are so correct! I click on the podcast link every Monday and Thursday regardless of the name. Why? Because I trust your team to deliver quality content.

Julian is such a lovely man, humble and down to earth; which so much to offer the listeners. Thank you Steven for hosting him on your podcast 🙏

"Uncomfortable is a call for assessment" Wow, love it. From here on I will look into why I don't listen to those who are way off from my values and principles. Thank you for interviewing him, Stephen.

It is human to judge someone who doesn't or can't articulate themselves properly - but it's also sad. This is why it is so important to invest in yourself by developing overall communication skills. Very insightful interview, thanks.

He's right about that. They didn't teach me how to speak publically. I learned how to do it on my own. What they did let us do in school was read aloud. But, I remember when I got into show business: I narrated my first show on my own with my team as teenager. I pulled it off enough that there was an interest in management. One of the things he said was about breathing. I had no problem in that area , because I trained in Martial Arts. Part of Martial Arts is the art of breathing. When you punch somebody you constantly breathing out. I learned some Yoga techniques as well. I also had some singing lessons where I learned how to breath effectively. I'm a singer by the way. I've worked in a Gospel group for years. Learning how to use the diaphragm. Plus now I do my own Youtube videos where by I narrate my own stories on Artists I care about. I found my niche with that. It has gotten better. I notice the stories which was narrated well. I got the most views. So he's right its a skill. Like him. I'm not so much of an extrovert. But, I've learned to overcome that when its vital to be an extrovert in the things I enjoyed to do. It has paid off.

Some of the treasures that I gathered from Julian speech: 1. Listening 👂is the sound of democracy. 2. With conscious listening, the result is always understanding.🧐 3. There is usually a good reason for what people say or do.👍 4. Honesty should be tempered with love.❤️

Julian Treasure is the best speaker I’ve ever heard! Tremendously listenable!

Fascinating to hear someone promoting what I would call 'compassionate assertiveness'. As an introvert, life long people pleaser who suffered burnout in my early 40s, I've done a lot of soul searching / reflection and work on being assertive with compassion to others. No guaranteed outcomes and certainly not easy but better than my old ways! Thank you Julian and Steven.

I have to state that I was never a podcast listener. I'm a little impatient. But after listening to one of your shows I look forward to them. I appreciate your work.

🏁 F: Faith L: Love A: Acceptance G: Gratitude

Stephen, you are such a lucid and sensitive podcaster. The guests you bring to the show are of course brilliant in themselves, and from this episode, I understand how much care goes into cherry-picking persons that we as the audience can connect to. You give us a deep belief that you genuinely care about us on the other side of the screen. But also your energy to seamlessly bind with the personality on the other side of the table is so enchanting. And above that, your team does a miraculous job of turning the conversations into artistic visual and auditory experiences as well. What I would maybe ask for is, if it would be possible, to get links to books, videos, and other content that is mentioned in the conversation in the description? It would be easier for deep-diving on the topic ... and maybe a plant or two in the studio 😅🪴 Thank you ever so much for pursuing this path. The world is changing for the better because of you and your team:virtualhug:

Watching on YT where my ears are regularly assaulted by screeching salespeople begging me not to skip and I can't skip the ad' fast enough!! Fascinating conversation. I remember studying psychology GCSE where I first heard that noise is/can be a stimulus to violence - something I was very aware of but not consciously. Thank crunchy for mute buttons! I really enjoyed listening to this, thank you both xxx

This is ACTUALLY as important as the introduction implies. All the self-help and mental health and relationship stuff comes down to THIS.

The Buddha; “ Only speak if it serves a better purpose than your silence”. That translates into only speak if you have no personal interest in being heard. Remain silent as long as your honesty tells you that your views are biased. This is the noble path for those that aspire towards the ultimate truth and enlightenment. For everyone else, do whatever you please!

36:17 I was failing everything because I wouldn't sleep at night due to CPTSD from my parents constantly fighting, but saving the worst for when we went to bed (when we could obviously hear them). I'd sleep on the bus and in history class. Math felt impossible to me. Then we started doing algebra and at first it felt absolutely foreign but once I got it, I really got it. I was so proud to take my test results out to my dad (our bus driver) and show him.. I got 98%. I was exploding with pride and excitement in anticipation. He said, "where's the other 2%?" Stabbed me in the heart. Perfectionism has ruined me and I'm only 41. I'm just now starting to realize how all this happened.. my current "situation". Now I'm going to heal that part of me and move TF on. I'm perfectly imperfect. I'm good enough and that is enough.

I laughed out when he said how irritating it is for nonsense being delivered brilliantly. How true.

One thing I really like about your videos Steven, is the respect you show towards your partner too. ✌🏾

Walking outside with my headphones listening to this. I love our guest today thank you 🙏 his words are like natural serotonin for my head ✨️ 😌