How to Deal with Difficult Family Members | Eckhart Tolle

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Publicado 2024-07-25
Eckhart Tolle addresses the challenge of dealing with difficult emotions and pain body reactions when interacting with one's parents. He emphasizes the importance of accepting parents' limitations and understanding that their behavior stems from past conditioning beyond their control. Eckhart Tolle suggests that mental acceptance might not be complete and requires reinforcement through continuous practice. He advises recognizing that parents' actions are a manifestation of their conditioning, not their true essence, and encourages viewers to look for glimpses of their parents' true being during moments of clarity and connection.

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Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. With his international bestsellers, The Power of Now and A New Earth—translated into more than 50 languages—he has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. The New York Times has described him as “the most popular spiritual author in the United States,” and in 2011, Watkins Review (now Watkins Mind Body Spirit) named him “the most spiritually influential person in the world.”

Eckhart’s profound yet simple teachings have helped countless people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. His teachings focus on the significance and power of Presence, the awakened state of consciousness, which transcends ego and discursive thinking. Eckhart sees this awakening as the essential next step in human evolution.

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  • @susanl8478
    YES, I feel sick around my parents but I am very polite to them. I need to watch this 100 times.
  • @paulking9479
    The majority are sleep walking all day, oblivious to their habitual words and actions, its funny to observe although sooo repetitive.
  • @stephenflood3463
    We can choose our friends but we cannot choose our family and yet we are all better off becoming independent souls as soon as we're all old enough so we do not have to depend on or be stuck with toxic family members. Thank you so much Eckhart.🙏
  • @Shonda-y7c
    Oh, how I wish I could attain Eckhart's level of spiritual enlightenment. He doesn't have to practice; he is the practice. We are all so privileged to be sharing this time on Earth with Eckhart Tolle. We have been given a gift. ✨
  • @mikaeldelta
    Most of the people suffer just because they can't accept that they feel really bad for their parents. When I accepted and expressed these feelings to myself and to my therapist, my pain-body released it's emotional intensity. Since then I felt true love and empathy for them.
  • Parents are from different era’s. Rich or poor, the best thing you can give to your kids is your love 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼
  • @zari4527
    Eckhart you have changed thousands’ lives and many more indirectly without meeting them. What a graceful serendipity to know your teachings and ultimately knowing the Light of the world. Thank you for showing us the way ❤
  • @nicolagordon1816
    It's been a lifetimes work and when you think you have found inner strength and peace they do something that takes you right back. Fortunately my practice means i can recover much more quickly. Thank you Eckhart.
  • @mindlovesera
    선생님 감사합니다 사랑합니다 😊 선생님을 만나는 이 순간이 즐겁습니다. 🙏🩵🌎
  • @AllanJust-e9q
    Your videos are always so informative and informative! Thank you for this! ✨🍓
  • @elenafalgheri3263
    I've been stuck, with my mum now for 6 month and probably will have to spend few more month... what a pratice😂 I ' ve survived for now even though I had a burn out... I was maybe 17 or less when I spent so much time with her ... almost 62 now hope to heal greatly my pain body🙏
  • @NikolaSekuloski
    First the relationships when I was young thougt as something out of movies and when I grew up start thinking to be natural in communication and just say spontaneous things, but we lost ourselves in time rushing to do things and you think how things pop out, wait a minute, it's down to be more relaxed and productive and score better, so various things are necessary like diet, libido? or getting in life what you want, like jobs, items, and have better experience, not be stuck alone, get more friends, dates, and if you are better in life you can also help others be better in life, so if communication is bettered then the lifestyle is better. And it's also down to maintain emotions, the whole range, then time spent with family members will feel like something special and productive if you avoid stress and anxiety because nothing can hurt you if you follow the rules, maybe it's best to sail in life in some form knowing where you stand, and in the long run think how good life can be. I think reading helps, having hobby and obsession of the good kind to avoid the nothingness feeling when you are blocked. Those blocks to be thrown in the trash.
  • @SuperHarhoura
    I'm currently on holiday with my mum and i feel like all the internal work I've been doing over the past couple of months is coming undone in only a couple of days with her. She is so domineering, stubborn and always thinks she's right. I'm trying to stay present but at times I feel an overwhelming sense of resentment and heaviness. There are moments where I notice this and re-centre myself but then she will do something to trigger me again. It's difficult because she is till my mum at the end of the day so I don't want to upset her but at the same time I need to look after my mental health.
  • @tanianature2511
    Morning ET and All! My children trigger my pain body as they cannot dissolve past conditioning and continuously repeat nasty comments of past actions and memories. I use to bottle up the pain within but once I am alone I break down with tears and suffering. You have gradually helped me understand how to avoid the emotional reaction of sadness and I am very grateful as I was tired of the constant repeated pain. Their constant disrespectful words triggered ego identity within me and I felt that heavy energy. But gradually with your help I don’t completely lose myself to that emotional identification and become aware and observe that change of identity. This video helped me understand they have that past emotional mental disease and no longer blame myself. I will continue to stay present when they use negative verbal comments. Thank you soo much for your kindness and generosity to pave a more positive path for healing. Arohanui 💜
  • @GoldieWagoner-s2s
    Very interesting topic! Looking forward to more videos from you! 🔥😛