5 Mind games narcissists play

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They don’t love anyone it’s all pretend because you don’t hurt people over and over again if love someone you lift them up you don’t tear them down

No contact is the ONLY way to cope

As soon as I suspect someone is a narcissist... I leave! I'have burned myself to often and It's not worth the risk...

Do these narcissistic people all train at the same school? They all use the same tactics, apparently. I was married to a narcissistic woman for 32 years (now separated). She used all of these tactics. She used to accuse me of things that weren't true, but if I defended myself, she would tell me, "I know what you're thinking!!". Just bizarre. She viciously flew into me one day for not doing something. When I defended myself by explaining that she hadn't asked me to do it (which she admitted). She defended the outburst by stating that, although she hadn't asked me to do it , she had "hoped" that I would do it. Sounds like magical thinking to me. What sort of a person thinks that they can make things happen simply by hoping?

Self proclaimed empath equals covert narcissist be careful.

My ex believes love is an emotion. She couldn’t comprehend it when I told her it is an action.

Wish they taught this in school

My ex and I used to talk only in English, because our respective first languages were different. My English is excellent, but his is more "proper" and he would occasionally correct my grammar, which I was fine with. Whenever I wanted to talk about something serious, like his excessive drinking, he would make a fuss about me "picking wrong words" and making me confused while obviously running away from the problem. It would get so exhausting, every single time, trying to convince him that he knows what I am saying and that he should not be picking up on individual words... I eventually gave up on talking about any of the issues we had. But eventually I gathered enough of a clear mind to call the whole thing off.

He was and is a narcissist! I suspected it from day one n it’s so clear now looking back. His actions never matched his words. Used me a placeholder n played games the entire time. SMH glad I’m not in it anymore.

You have the most comprehensive understanding of this subject matter that I have ever heard! Thank you for articulating with such clarity. I know this knowledge came at a price. Well done.😮

so very helpful - thank you!! I thought I was going insane and it was so depressing to doubt myself and second guess my intentions constantly. Now I know how to say "no" and to bring the conversation back to "what I'm focused on." So helpful!

Actions tell the truth. Yep, so true!

My ex would never accept what's in this advice. He'd just double down. He'd tell you the sky was pink and purple polka dots if he felt like it.

Spot on! Dealing with this type of behavior is sooo mind blowing! But the worst part is there's so much more happening in these relationships. This is just a little peek into what happens daily to some of us! Hang in there everyone! Know your worth! Stay strong 💪

These videos are the most helpful thing I've come across since dealing my fiance for the last 4 years. A covert narcissist who has crossed every line and hit everywhere below the belt in every way to sabotage family relationships, friends, and my daily well being in general of course. I hope the best of luck for anyone dealing with anything similar. And wanted to say thank you for uploading these videos on behalf of myself and anyone else who they might be helpful to

Used to be so full of life 😢til I was targeted by my father who's very narcissistic and his group of gangstalking bullies . Now I am in a state of depression, anxiety,ptsd , diabetes, feeling betrayed , walking on eggshells .My father always denies everything, plays victim , gaslights my reality, plays mind games,ghosts , gives silent treatment, refuses to answer my questions .

I love and value your approach to navigating narcissists. Other folks often bring a fair bit of negativity to their discussions of narcissists... I've found your approach encourages us to remain positive and respectful, while maintaining firm and clear boundaries. Thanks again!!!

I am really enjoying your videos. Self worth is fundamental to enjoying life, and whilst as an empath I still want to feel empathy for a Narcissists mental condition ,I am unable to do this, having been married to one for a few years when I was a lot younger and had another relationship with a narcissist, in truth they are despicable people who thrive on creating misery for other people , and destroying any self worth or good feeling you have about yourself. Evil may be too strong a word but not far off I think, I know of two friends and one aquaintance who took their own lives as a result of Narc relationships, and another who had a heart attack

Yes they abuse the words “you are the one”…in blame, someone cares about that, but in life, blame is just bad energy and never is what “solves” things 😁😊😁