The #1 BLOCK Between You & Your Dream Love Life… Follow These Steps | Matthew Hussey

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

Just changed my life in that moment..the one who doesn't say yes can not be the one🎉..oh I'm 68..never too late to learn❤❤

2 minutes into this video, I thought - hmmm seems like Matthew is showing up differently than I remember. Not for the better or for the worse, but in a way that felt softer to me. More warm, compassionate. Come to find out, he confirms this himself midway through the video! Loved it. Thank you!

I so much appreciate the vulnerable side of Matthew, it's so attractive to me as a woman to see a man being present, taking his time, allowing stillness... it's very clear that he has connected with a deeper part of himself and shows overall more depth in the way he speaks, the things he shares, his body language... and Andre you are such an amazing host, it's truly inspiring.

I wish the world would have more men like you two. Amazing conversation! 🙏

Matthew Hussey is completely right! Andre you are an incredible host, very compassionate and most importantly you let your guests speak instead of trying to one up them and you are truly engaged on listening and not needing notes. By far you are amazing host/ Podcaster. Thank you for everything you!! ❤

Whoever Andre and Matthew's significant others are have won the Lottery..Swoon❤❤❤

The love of your life is not another person is yourself ❤ you are the one who has to love your own company if u don’t like it nobody else will. It really all starts within 😊

I can concur.....don't get hung up on the package. I found the most mind blowing person. All 4 on his list check, but the depth of quality of each is so incredible. This biggest physical feature is this man is smaller than me. But he is so much smarter than me. And I'm a smart cookie. He makes me laugh every single day. And he can see right through me. I hated in my past 20 years relationship that I could hide parts of myself. I can not hide in this new relationship, and I love it so much. He calls me out when I hide. And it's so sexy.

Matthew is such a gift, he has a very empathetic and non-judgemental presence and he just explains things so well

GRIEF is simply the result you didn't want. But God has a plan.... 🎉❤❤❤🎉 There is HOPE for tomorrow. Be still and LET HIM BE God.

This was great! I almost didn't watch because it didn't fit into my usual diet of esoteric / ancient history / quantum physics / nonsensical comedy, BUT something in me told me to watch it since I am deep down a hopeless romantic and could use some practical advice now and again. Matthew had a way with words that I thoroughly enjoyed and I really like how clear he was about the 4 levels of finding "the one". Well done Matthew and as always Andre! Loved it.

Matt was one of the first spiritual teachers I ran into. This dude is full of beautiful wisdom and knowledge with respect to relationships. Thank you so much Andre for these killer episodes!

Thanks for the confirmation!! My teenage daughter just recently helped me shift my 50 year old mindset on this topic. We had just both gone through an unexpected heart break- I didn’t share too much with her but I did my best to empower her with advice I couldn’t seem to take myself. She was post 4 days a break up and was I was 4 months and she said, “my person wouldn’t do something like that!” How right!! Here I am lamenting on how come it didn’t come to full fruition if it was so perfect - it’s because he wasn’t MY person! Took the baby to teach me. ❤So that helped my reality shift. I still find myself thinking of that one person but it feels like it’s so the past and the future is where it’s at with beautiful new set of eyes!! What I loved in this podcast that was impactful for to me, was : Disappointment is a lot easier to get over than the chronic grieving of telling ourselves a story that we found our person…”

At 2:06 André asks Matt a great question, something I have thought about and have asked my own relationship coach. Matt doesn't answer André's question. At 37:38 I love Matt's four levels of evaluating a life-partner, it's such a great framework to use. 1) Admiration 2) Mutual Interest 3) Commitment 4) Compatibility

“When you overvalue the wrong things you get yourself into a world of pain” I felt that.

I have loved the conversation so far. I have a perspective to add. One hand clapping. You told your story that you needed to have another hold that space for you. So you were lucky enough to learn that lesson of self love through love. That's wonderful. We can also learn it through trauma. We can learn it through a "toxic" relationship where you get abandoned in some way. Then through taking the time and being alone without being, "in the game". Because we can work through what happened and find all the same answers when we find them in ourselves. We don't need to be in a relationship to learn to love ourselves and not need anyone else to hold space for us than ourselves. But someone else doing it is a lovely way, if we get to that point before the options get farther away than your energy. 😂

Huge shift Matthew… disappointment is a lot easier to get over than the chronic grieving that comes From telling ourselves a story that we’ve found our person🤯🤯🤯

Wow! I love this collab - unexpected, so props to you both for widening your circles

Im a female age 58 widow who finally took the risk after 24 year marriage to get out there and date. I had a wonderful six months, but this person was a narcissist love bombed me at the beginning, and after the faded, we slowly went downhill he broke up with me, and I felt the rejection so deep that I realized my ADHD issues of rejection sensitivity dysphoria, and that took me into a whole other world of learning this last winter, I’m finally getting enough courage to leave and let go although he broke up with me. We stayed friends this whole last winter and I was hanging on and hanging on your talk today hit me and I’m excited for the book to arrive and I’m gonna be on that live coaching where you set me up for the next year cause I’m ready to take the steps thank you Matthew. You are an amazing person and I’m so glad you’re sharing your whole self in this book. I will respect every page love from Annette. Canada 🇨🇦