Coffee and Crime Time: Sarm Heslop and The Siren Song

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Dear Stephanie: As a person who is leaving a 4 year long narcissistic and abusive relationship (and really struggling especially lately!) .. THANK YOU for posting this. -- 4 months free so far.

The local police there are TRASH! They are cover-up artists! My cousin was murdered there a few years back. He (a grown man )was found hanging from his shower curtain rod in a room that looked like there was a scuffle. His "girlfriend" was on a plane fleeing with her other boyfriend. They ruled it a suicide. He had defense marks on his hands and arms. My family member was NOT suicidal, and would never have killed himself. His best friend in high school committed suicide and it really hit him hard. I can't remember the amount of times he told me that he would never do that to the people he loved. Brad Gunn was a loving, caring, beautiful man. He was fiercely protective of his loved ones and was taken from a daughter, sisters, mother, and cousins. He was living the dream in the Vifgin Islands. Rest easy Brad. We know the truth and we love you!❤

It is so maddening when the very qualities that your partner said they loved about you become what they say they hate you for at the end.

As I sit barricaded in my bathroom dying my roots as a sad 40 something woman who once “shown” brightly, I think.. completely isolated from all friends and family, while my husband sulks in the following room, just close enough to make me very aware of his presence, after 24 hours of bickering of how he has no recollection of his destruction of our finances, and that I can’t leave because I’ve lost everyone and my credit, he’s oblivious and we appear to be speaking separate languages as all he cares about is his appearance, I bawled listening to your breakdown of exactly my life. Thank you so much Stephanie. I wish I could have known you. I wish I had someone in my life to say those words. Your support and honesty reach over the miles to reach me, a pitiful woman going crazy on the opposite coast, at least I know there’s a chance I’m not crazy and I may not be alone as it seems. I appreciate you, you’ve comforted me in the worst of times. Thank you. ❤

please consider covering the bizarre disappearance of Gage Daniel(6yrs old) and Chloie Leverette(8yrs old). Their grandparents had custody of both children. On September 23rd 2013 a blazing house fire was put out by firefighters. The burnt remains of the elderly couple were found down in the basement lying side-by-side on the concrete floor. The basement door stayed locked at all times because that's where the man's tools were kept. The charred remains of their beloved dog were located, and even their little yellow parakeet. BIZARRELY NO remains of the children could be located at the scene, whatsoever. Investigators say that the only item missing from the home was a large safe. To this day Gage and Chloie have never been seen or heard from again.

Stephanie your description of how narcissists pick their victims has got me in tears. I was in a 14 year marriage that developed into hell for me. 7 years after his passing I still have so many complicated feelings and I often think there is something wrong with me. I am sending you so much love right now. Thank you ❤

❤one of the most difficult things to do is getting up everyday & moving through life when ur struggling & want nothing more than to stay in bed ... I appreciate Stephanie not just saying u'll get through difficult times but actually being an example & showing what getting through it looks like❤

Stephanie "im unable to do multi part series right now." You go girl, take all the you time. Also Stephanie "here's a 1.5 hour video" 😳

15,668.92 dollars has been donated by Criminal Coffee company so far. I was just telling my husband we need to start purchasing Criminal Coffee and explained why. I only knew of the Preble Penny donation. Thanks for everything you do Stephanie and Derrick, y'all are awesome.

You literally explained every single sign of a narcissist crystal clear. That is my husband. I know that you must have dealt with this first hand because it felt like it was all coming from my heart and mouth. We are survivors. I am still in the process of being discarded by my narcissist. But this is only temporary. You are helping people today and always. Sending a little piece of my heart to you. ❤

My cousin was dealing with one of these demons up until last week when he sh*t her in the head and then unalived himself. Mind you their 4yr old daughter witnessed it all and told police when they arrived everything that happened. My cousin is in the hospital with good vitals but still fighting. She is that bright light that all of us wished they were. She is the " If I love them enough they'll change" but she still never deserved this. I've been there but was able to get away. I wish she would have before it got this far. Thank you Stephanie for being so transparent. It is appreciated

Between this channel and crime weekly, you put a lot of work into these cases and i just wanted to say I appreciate and see your passion for true crime. You are real, raw and empathetic to the victims and their families.❤ thank you Stephanie

A narcissist treats people like a to-go coffee cup... As long as the cup has coffee in it, it's important to them. As soon as the cup is empty, they throw it in the trash.

Before I get to the case itself in the vid, idk if it's just me but there's something about Stephanie's strut through the doorway in the intro that gives off "here to slay" energy and I love it.

Stephanie’s ongoing description of a Narcissist, proves she’s genuinely dealt with one! They are unfortunately abundant.

Thank you Stephanie for being so raw and real. In order to get support it’s easier when you know people have gone through it also. You are amazing Ms. Harlowe

Stephanie, I am sure you're aware there are people trapped in narcissistic abusive entanglements, who are watching this and can not comment publicly for fear of it being seen by their abuser. You are helping them. You are giving them strength and courage. You are seeing them. You might be saving lives for that. Thank you. 💫

You talking about narcissists is so therapeutic, as someone who grew up with a violent, narcissistic father. Thank you. It was truly healing and validating to hear your thoughts.

I feel spoiled! A new Stephanie video and crime weekly today! So excited!! Happy Easter 🐰🐣 to those who celebrate!!!