Non Binary Starter Kit

I embraced my asexuality at age 53. Coming up on 63, I'm bracing for the enby outing, since I've definitely never embraced any kind of binary gender identity or presentation.

I’ve considered myself agender for the last few years and am almost 60. It mentally gave me the freedom to not have to wear jewelry or makeup because I’ve never really liked them. I also tried a variety of stuff from different types of clothing found that I can wear some stuff from the “boys” department in large and XL, like colorful tees, polos, and button ups, and husky size pants that fit my afab hips. I’m not really out and no one comments on my clothing choices. I kind of hate most modern “women’s” tops.

I'd say being nonbinary means first you have to look inside who you are, what makes you happy while thinking "that's me"! And then you make your custom way of being nonbinary. That being said, it sucks my father is super bigoted so I can't get it for myself.

I'm quite confident that I'm just a cis male, but I made sure to save this in case anyone I meet in the future might need it. I guess I also just want to boost this video in the algorithm for people that need it.

Hmmm just a reminder. You can be nonbinary without characterising yourself in any sort of way. Bless!

Blonde hair with a soft blue hoodie works so well!

that’s very funny that I looked much much more androgynous when I wasn’t aware of being enby. and there were people who thought I was a boy when my figure was hidden. and now, being aware and out, I’m wearing skirts more, makeup everyday (but the clown colourful one, different everyday) and my hair is the longest it’s been for last 10 years. :D

I'm cisM but I'm so interested in enby fashion. I've literally just been living in jeans/shorts and tees so experimenting is something completely new is pretty cool.

I recently found out that I'm demi. A very nice trans person pointed that out after talking and chatting with me for some time. It just felt so normal to not have sexual interest or feelings towards most people (almost everybody) that it never felt strange. So I still really feel the impact of the "cultural" shock that hit me. In addition, it seems that a possible attraction (when it happens) also is not restricted to a certain gender. Cultural shock number two. I wish everybody from the rainbow family good luck and support on their way to find out who you are and how you show it to the world. My personal starter kit is just a small pride pin, I wear on my collar every day.

After many expensive too-feminine pixie cuts I gave up on hairstylists and bought hair clippers. Best decision ever! I can do my own hair whenever I feel like it, since I'm genderfluid that really helps me present how I feel in the moment, without having to wait for appointments etc. I find when I clip it ultra short (1-2mm) people mostly read me as female. When it grows to about 1cm (which only takes a week or two) most people start to read me as male. Which did surprise me in the beginning, I would have expected it to be the other way round! It's funny how such a tiny difference in hair length can make a big difference in how people read you. Also I like to wear different styles of hats, much cheaper and easier to find here than wigs 😊

I really appreciate you posting this! ^_^ I forgot how little non-binary posters of things are out there, and I forgot how meaningful it is to me because it doesn't happen very often

Amazing video! Sometimes I get depressed over the fact that I’m nonbinary and it seems that half the world is against me being me but this vid felt like a hug from a friend and made me remember there are others like me out there 💜

Damn this vid came out at the perfect time for me. My egg cracked about 10 months ago and I have been really enjoying the process of exploring - though I've been doing so quite slowly. Of course it's still been peppered with moments of "Nah I'm probably still cis, right?" until yesterday I thought "Okay I've been exploring and enjoying this AND I still remember how good it felt when someone referred to me as 'them'" so it's really nice to watch this video and get some ideas about how I might look into this further! Thank you!

As a younger enby bean getting in the circles, your channel and advice is so helpful for me!!! Thank you!!!!

Button up shirts!! I love patterned button up shirts, they really help with appearing in between the binary.

The rules are there are no rules. Nonbinary is a massively diverse spectrum that can range all the way from bordering one of the binary genders, to nowhere in between. Since there are no preexisting third genders to model in modern western society, you pretty much have to discover and invent it for yourself. I know of some who transition all the way, as a binary trans person would, but still are nonbinary. I know some who only socially transition, or who go about their business as their AGAB because it's nobody else's business. I'm personally leaving every option on the table, with the goal of reaching the point where I can switch up my presentation day by day, since I'm genderfluid.

And I hope that everyone has a wonderful day

As a transmasc genderfluid person i decided to see how much would apply to me and the first thing it related to was the bieber hair T-T

To anyone who wants to cut their hair: please consider donating it! If you intend to cut more than 25cm/9 inches you can donate it to organisations that make wigs for people that are experiencing hair loss. I just donated my hair and it was a pretty cool experience. I love my short hair now! I realised that (also for me as a cis person) experimenting with my style is so fun! And I used reference pics of some non-binary people's haircuts :)

I’ve known I was nonbinary for almost 3 years now and am still closeted, though potentially want to come out soon maybe and this was helpful. Also over the time, and especially more recently I’ve been thinking I may be more and more fem maybe transfem or something, and have been looking into taking estrogen, though it’s been so hard to find any resources available on what using low dose e could do for me rather than the full dose.