THIS IS WHY I WANT TO DROP-OUT OF UNIVERSITY...

unfortunately momina, not everyone is privileged and equipped enough to acquire the same opportunities as others without grades. Good academic grades acts as an asset to earn scholarships to pursue dream colleges and universities hence removing burden from one’s parents. Secondly, prioritising our education is the only way out of this country for us. Through good grades we get a pathway to explore the world and fulfil our dreams which otherwise won’t be possible. You might have seen 12th fail and that’s a good enough movie to prove how marks opens so many gates for people. There are two options: either work hard in your prime years till 25 and enjoy later or enjoy right now and work hard afterwards

I LOVED this video. You touched base on such a controversial topic and im here for it!! ❤

happy to see you back!❤

O'Levels result araha hai! I wish everyone gets what they wish for!

According to my personal experience of taking a gap year, I wouldn't suggest anyone to take it until and unless you have an idea of what you are planning to do and how you would implement on it. I belong to a middle class family and I didn't think of repercussions back then for example despite getting internships, I couldn't do those cause of conveyance issues. I was in constant pressure of getting into a uni and was having doubts of over my academic capabilities despite being a good student throughout. It was emotionally draining too being at home all day and finally when i took part in a summer workshop program i felt how much one can crave for such things so its not easy specially if you think that there might not be a very strong support system around of ppl motivating you. Plus diet gets impacted too during gap year. I got certain health issues. I did get into a very good university after that, though I would say if you plan to take a gap year for e.g to get into your dream university, then its better to continue with any other good university and simultaneously prepare for your dream university test but ofc everybody's circumstances are different, do what best suit you, I just shared my experience. Its generally harder to take gap year if someone is from a middle class family and there is constant pressure.

It takes alot of courage to follow the path you have followed , honestly i am the person who is having summer vacation right now and these same questions are in my mind although i am still finding the answers but this video is really helpful. AT LEAST i am not the only one who suffers this!!

Well said momoo! Your my inspiration 🙌🏻❤️✨

This was good to hear!

just want to appreciate you for being you and being real🎀💗

I agree with what you said about the gap year, I too feel like it transformed me into a whole new person (in a good way) I used to be very shy and I gained so much confidence after working in an online school. I was able to make decisions for myself and in that year I decided how my life will look like, what degree I want to pursue and if I want to start a business or do a 9-5. I'd recommend people to take a gap year if they are feeling a bit lost. It really did wonders for me.

Dropping out of higher education is always a mistake. The professional life of the future is highly specialised, and will demand highly specialised skills and knowledge. Trust me, I’ve been living in Norway my entire life, a country that is a template for many countries future. Here, if you’re not highly educated, you’re most likely to stay on the lower levels of society, both economically and socially.

read all before commenting hi i wish i could comment in vm but anyways.. ive both perspectives so prhai is important because it gives you that exposure to build network or friends you want to do business with later on or just to learn in person/virtually. Not just that, prhai also shapes you as a person (mentally unstable yes- but like a whole new different personality). When u do prhai you can change the way you educate your kids and that’s how society would change so it’s important for women to get educated esp to be aware of their rights and responsibilities and potential. But one can debate that it’s important but it’s not the only way of life. There are more things to learn- like skills that help you in today’s day and age or even like you said knowing yourself as when you know yourself you know god and your own true potential. And mind you- you don’t need a busn degree to do business. Just u do u <3 With that said, this is a fact coming from an straight A /A* student that this is not a source of happiness esp when you’re used to getting it there’s more to life. Explore, enjoy and find your calling in your time. And prioritize your mental health over grades!! Don’t worry over what you cannot control. Do your best then leave it to Allah. Accept what comes altho it may take time. And things can wait but you need to be in the right headspace to experiment and take risks. But with that said dont wait for your perfect timing. Like ik ppl who say “oh we’ll start this once we’re done with a degree or job”. You don’t have to wait. Just start and slowly build everything. Make mistakes early and learn rather than avoiding trying to set up smthn perfect. p.s its okay to take gaps, don’t listen to others and there’s more to explore if you don’t get into your desired occupation/degree/job etc. Hope this helps !! (wrote so much i didn’t realise😭)

I have always been an A+ student throughout school and my 1 year at a university abroad. However, due to my circumstances I had to move back to Pakistan and transferred to another university here. Despite completing my first year with decent grades (which I was not expecting at all but as you said weightage matters A LOT unlike in the US, I was pleasantly surprised with my result). However, this transition really made me realize how much I miss my personal growth now as Pakistan's education system is really different from what I had adjusted myself to during my 5 years abroad. I do not know how an introverted person like me should go out of my comfort zone especially when i feel extremely out of place. So for me, grades are not the only thing I really want my independence back but being in a sheltered environment here, there are restrictions. I also had to compromise on my choice of major as the university I enrolled in did not offer Psychology. I opted for an anthro/socio major instead but I wonder if it'll be as interesting as the things I studied in my previous uni yk? I guess I am oversharing stuff but the video spoke to me and as u said there is room for discussion in the comments. What would u suggest as I envy people like u who take risks and are confident enough to explore themselves❤ Much love Momina <3

I took a gap year too when I was 20 and trust me that year transformed me too much I mean in a better way!! ❤️ I got independent. Mental growth happens when you get out of your comfort zone

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conversation topic: 1) Why is their is a race you have to catch up in life? 2) how to overcome the age limit that is acknowledged by society for a women to get married in Pak ?

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