HOW TO RADIATE FEMININE ENERGY TO LIVE A SOFT LIFE: habits, dating, tips and healing *LIFE CHANGING*

This Video has literally change my life. After sitting back and allowing I get asked by my number from a man and an other seeks me out somehow on social media. The world is looking different at you when you’re confident and happy about your life ❤️

For family, friends, and relationships= feminine energy. For career = masculine energy. ❤️

1. Prioritize yourself - Do what you love (hobbies, socializing) - Create chaotically (arts, projects) - Take time to care for yourself - Surround yourself with what you love (people, home) - Channel anger into rage (create and destruct) - Take pride in yourself - Prioritize fulfilment over productivity 2. Stay calm - Take time to calm down, and be present (meditate, do nothing) - Focus on your body rather than rationality - Don't perform/work too hard - Don't control: let life be - Don't fill every silence - Allow things to be easy - Release the need to prove yourself - Allow yourself to be mysterious/don't focus on proving yourself 3. Present yourself with grace - Dress with grace - Take care of yourself - Hold a delicate posture - Personalize how you dress - Just do whatever makes you feel feminine: perfume, skin care, etc. 4. Communicate tenderly - Use a feminine voice - Use polite language - Talk tenderly, and mainly through showing rather than talking 5. Own your desires - Express your desires - Trust yourself to choose the right men - Trust yourself to speak up when something is up - Communicate clearly 6. Don't fight - Let men be free - Respect men - Keep peace - Don't criticize men - Allow men to be unexpressive about their emotions - Allow yourself to disagree - Don't require people to agree 7. Be thankful - Honour men's protection and provision - Receive men's affection - Show appreciation 8. Listen actively - Read and consider people's emotions - Don't fill every silence 9. Be joyful - Be playful (in conflict too) - Enjoy your time - Remind people how great it is to be a woman and to be alive 10. Focus on your body - Direct your spirit before your action - Don't focus on rational debate - Sit down and relax - Experience your sensuality 11. Be loving - down to earth - humble - unentitled - confident - holding strong boundaries - compassionate - nurturing - trusting - open - creative - strong-minded 12. Connect - Show love to children - Connect with other women

When I‘m in school or working I want to be in my masculine energy and when I‘m not in school or woeking I want to be in my feminine energy. Love this balance

It took me 14 years of dating to realise that MEN LOOOVE TO MAKE WOMEN HAPPY. Literally, they love buying gifts, helping with grocery bags, helping with little stuff. It makes them feel needed, desired and proud. I heard many times my male friends being sad when they said their gf didnt like the gift and dont know how to make her smile anymore or she doesn't let me help her. It took me years to stop fighting about it as if I was fighting for my independence and except that Im worthy of nice things. Let man be man. Disclaimer: Im not talking about man who do stuff/buy stuff to get something in return for you. Beautiful video, all of them and thank you for your work 🍀

Feminine ENERGY. You gave me the words to describe a long time friend of mine. I couldn't put my finger on it until now. See, she's not feminine/girly but has a rather tomboyish style and yet I never saw her as super masculine. This soft light energy comes off of her in waves! In my 10+ years of our friendship, I've never once heard her put down another woman. She got this calm personality but isn't shy or quiet. She sets her boundaries in simple but firm ways. I'm always over the hill with happiness whenever we meet because her presence is so refreshing 🥺

This is everything. I was raised by a strong willed single mother. Learned to do everything by myself because no men were ever around to help. I was taught to survive. That energy has subconsciously been carried into my romantic life and I am now seeing that I was never taught feminine energy.. I always wondered how women can get a man to do everything for them or have a man intently pursue them. I get it. Now I have to remove myself from this logical analytical masculine persona, and be vulnerable enough to embrace the abundant, feminine, feeling side. Been getting back into ballroom/ swing dancing where men are forced to lead and we embrace being receptive and following his lead. Its been such a good analogy for my life. Thank you for this video! <3 Life changing!

"you can chase your dreams and have a soft girl life at the same time" <3

Been in “survival mode” since I was little and want to very much be in my feminine energy. I’ve got most of it down, but keep being pulled back into the masculine by friends and family. I’m forever the mother, fixer, counsellor. But what I really want is for someone to be that person(s) for me and a safe environment to be in my feminine energy. Work in progress, which is why I haven’t dated in a while, but feel like I’m getting there. Boundaries and living my life to the fullest, have been the biggest steps.

As someone who's always displayed a masculine energy in relationships, this video is literally what I needed to see. I can't wait to put this to use for myself.

Be assertive, ladies. Confidence and assertiveness go side to side. Go after your dreams. Don’t just sit there pretending it’s feminine energy. Chase after your dreams and goals.

Even tho I’m a feminine soft woman.. I don’t think this should be imposed on all women.. love people for who they are❤️

The feminine and masculine has to be balanced in ourself.❤

Such a inspiration! Every girl should watch this video! I recently started watching them and I’ve already chnage my live immensely. Your words repeat in my head throughout the day and inspire me to take back my life. I’m doing everything for me now and it’s thanks to you! Thank you tam!❤❤❤

Out of all the videos I've watched about feminine energy this was THE BEST. There are others who talk about dressing and "talk like a girl" be more girly and stuff. I love how you explained the difference between feminine energy and femininity just in the beginning! Amazing content!❤️✨😭

Girl gave us a whole therapy session in less than 20 minutes, I appreciate this so much, it's eye opening

I always get to a point in which I am so overworked, sleep deprived because I want to achieve so many things at once and this is exhausting! This video was a great reminder for me to take a breath and calm down and believe in myself and that not everything has to happen today, thank you ❤

Ma'am. You didn't need to sit there and explain my whole entire existence. Like why are you in my brain??! omg, I took SO MANY notes, listened to everything twice, and I will be rewatching this video many more times. Thank you for sharing sis <3

This was a stunning video! She made so many great points, was actually doing some self-reflection whilst watching it.. definitely made me aware of things I’m unraveling within myself, and becoming aware of certain things within myself too, on my journey😌🍃

This video came just in time. I was so burnt out at the end of last year because of hard work that at one point I just stopped to have any emotions. I didn’t understand why some girls can get what they want while I have to constantly work and it’s still never enough. However, I decided to at least try to stop complaining all the time, took a break (which really helped), changed my wardrobe and hairstyle. I am trying now not to overthink everything and live with joy. After watching this video, I realized I’m going in the right direction. Thank you!