Why Narcissists Can't Admit Being Wrong, featuring Dr. Guy Winch

Narcissists can't admit being wrong, but have no problem blaming you for everything that goes wrong.

"Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviours, but never will discuss their disrespect that triggered you." -Unknown

"One thing about narcissists is they are extraordinarily predictable." This is gold . 💛 Thank you.

‘They will repeat their mistakes to the grave’. True words!

The funny part in all this is that they often label other people they abuse as fragile and overly sensitive 😂

The greatest sadness is they have the power of manipulation. They get away with it because they exhaust everyone else. The only reason they have any relationships is due to manipulating someone. 😢😢😢

Even if you had video of what they did, they would still deny it! Don’t let them make you unsettled!

Its almost magical that the content like this is available for us for free. Thank You.

I like the eject and parachute analogy. I shall remember that one. It's pointless talking to them about anything. They do not care how you feel or think. They're right you're wrong in their heads, there is no nuance. Once you wake up, you cannot unsee it and they won't change. There is no relationship, there never was because they cannot connect unless it's on their terms. You might spend decades in confusion slowly disintegrating and loosing yourself before something breaks the spell and you finally see they don't care about you and they never did. They rationalise everything they do and you're the bad person. Paranoid and defensive and they'll throw you under the bus every time to save themselves.

They feel intense shame and take it way too far to hide it. They are ‘never wrong’ in order to keep the facade going. They must portray a higher position to feel in control. You better not do better than they are in anything, or else. 🔨🔨🔨

If someone else admits a mistake, they jump on it. They think it shows weakness. Like a predator waiting for the opening to destroy you. And—“everyone is out to get me”—yes! And, they are always out to get others too. Works both ways.

Pushing away responsibility for their wrongdoings! This is the bomb that obliterates the relationship. It reeks of putridity.

The main issue I’ve seen with narcissists is how inferior they perceive you to themselves. If you can relate to a HOW DARE YOU type of anger when you stand up for yourself, that’s really a telltale sign to me.

It's always someone else's fault!

As s a non-fragile person, it's kind of shocking to see an abuser act damaged, after physically injuring you to the point of disability.

Narc mother in law taught her narc son that he can do whatever he wants to whoever he wants whenever he wants. No one told me this 33 years ago! 😩

Dr. Winch was a very good guest, Dr. C. He was very direct and no nonsense. You pick interesting experts.

Whatever they say you did is more likely something they did wrong.

Their lies are far too shameful towards humanity....it goes above and beyond humane, its as cruel as it gets

When I admitted fault with my narc sister she added to it..." And you're this and you're that!"