A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene

Full episode here 👉🏾 https://youtube.com/watch?v=Qv70RMUFlu0

I’m more seductive when I’m my most genuine self, confident and not expecting anything out of a situation. That’s when I got my jobs, friends, literally everything that I want. Everytime I tried to hard and put too much thought on how to act it didn’t give me the results I wanted. I’m just going to keep working on my confidence and trust in myself and my abilities.

Okay, so be a good listener. Be curious, ask questions be interested in the other person. Don’t preach and don’t be afraid to show a bit of vulnerability. That will work in any relationship. Good advice.

"If you meet someone insecure then it brings out the insecurities out of you, and if you spend time with some one confident it brings out the confidence out of you." Wow what a quote doctor Thankyou!

2:01 “What makes for a great seducer is you are outer directed.” Listening, entering their world and spirit. Show you’re attentive to them.

I always struggled with Robert Greene’s books because I found them kind of…cold? Sociopathic? But I’m glad I clicked on this interview, he breaks down so clearly why his advice isn’t about manipulating others but just showing interest and making them feel special. Love it, thanks for posting!

Seducing isn't about romance, dating and sexuality. It's in social interaction, especially friendship.

Vulnerability - Vulnus - Wound - Pain This somewhat explains why the term "pain point" is appropriate in the field of Marketing and Public Relations. You "seduce"/gain/please clients by addressing their pain points – providing solutions that address their wounds, in other words, heal them. The goal of marketing then becomes healing wounds instead of just "scratching an itch" or "satisfying a hunger," which I think brings a different dimension to the practice of PR. Really interesting insight.

That last point was interesting. I've definitely felt a little awkward and insecure around a couple of girls that I liked, but thinking about it, it was because they were closed off and insecure themselves.... Because I've spoken to girls just beautiful, who were single and easy to talk to. It's like a night and day difference. So don't blame yourself for how conversations go down - sometimes the other person has put up this wall and it's not worth the effort of getting through it. Let it come naturally.

I find clever humor seductive, and humility, admitting when you’re wrong or when you don’t know.

Love the way you explain vulnerability, now i can relax, and not be afraid of expose this side of me. Thank you Robert Greene.

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my YouTube channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,739 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

You're really good and you're gonna go places, brother! Well deserved.

The part about being preachy is very true.. I dug myself from the bottom and made it to the top change my eating habits change my thoughts just became an overall better person... And me thinking I could show everybody else the way have led to me being extremely isolated and lonely.. I've learned to just let people be.. even though I have a vast amount of knowledge on many things.. I just dumb myself down in social situations... Which is unfair to myself because I can't be myself so I just don't deal with people much

Robert is right about vulnerability in my opinion I like it when a guy shows his humility It creates a sense of warmth and hence safety I assume He isn’t egotistical or emotionally closed off I feel I can drop my guard and share myself more easily

Really nice talk,made so clear the difference between insecurity and vulnerability, thanks!

The interviewer is genuinely a good listener. A trait I have to learn indeed❤

These pointers are so great. I learn something. Thanks for having Robert Greene.

This was a great interview, great interviewer, great questions, well prepared, I’m really impressed. The whole hour was really worth it and vert instructive, bravo 😊

This is good information to know so that you don't get manipulated. I've fallen for two manipulators. Now I can see right through this kind of toxic behavior. Resist the devil and he will flee.