When you STOP LOOKING it finally comes... (secret of reality)

what will you stop looking for and let go of? 👀

I saw a good example of this. My sister had a hard time attracting love her entire life. She had gotten sick and was bed ridden for a whole year. When she was finally healed she focused on herself, went back to college, studied and worked. She met someone and has been in love dating for the last year. Her sickness forced her to change her energy. I tell people this and they think I’m crazy.

Just found your channel and at 66 years of age, I can say, you are 100% correct. When you want something passionately, but have not the faith to get it, the magnetic flux of your desire will actually repel the very thing you desire.

That’s why they say “a watched kettle never boils”. Each and every time something cool happens, it’s when you are not thinking about it or expecting it. That’s what I have found. But it’s hard to stop looking and thinking about what you want - even when you know that is the key!! So that’s what I need to figure out, going forward. Thanks for your video it is so true and, although it seems a bit paradoxical to the usual “focus on what you want”, I 100% have found this is how energy truly works.

So true. Many moons ago I had graduated college. Was desperately trying to find work. I applied everywhere and then finally I applied to a place I thought I probably won't even get but by then I had just let it go and thought whatever happens happens and that I was ok and things will be ok. Any ways I've been working for that company 12 years now.

When I stopped looking for love, I met a guy at the airport who started talking to me, we lost each other but then he ended up sitting next to me on the plane (pure chance). We ended up talking the whole flight, he was everything I had written down when I wrote down traits of my ideal partner. And he was SO into me. Sadly my self confidence was too low and I felt like he was too good for me (literally won Guinness records, owned his own business, traithalete...) and I ended up losing him though this poor self concept. I want him back but.... It's tough! Come back beautiful man!!

❤ so true, I stopped worrying about money and I have more then I need😊

I think the main problem people have been having with the whole detachment teachings is knowing how to tap into that frequency. You could make a billion videos over a year about telling someone to let go, but unless they feel themselves into that vibration, it is completely useless. The reason why this happens is because it tends to be a paradox. They can't let go, because the manifestation hasn't arrived, so they run in circles. I would say a very good and efficient technique to detachment is to take your focus off whatever it is. Invest your time into doing other things during the day.

True, it happened to me many times, the more your not looking, you’ll find it.

True surrender is the key! ❤️

I manifested my new home. For months I was home hunting and I went to view a home and knew this was the one despite many others that came to view as well. 2 months had passed and I didn’t get a call back from the agency even when I kept calling them and then I stopped thinking about it but I still knew within me that it would happen and one day I didn’t go to work and went to another job interview and when the interview ended I got a call from the agency that the home is available for me 🤭 This is very very true, once you KNOW and AFFIRM regardless of the situation that what you want is already yours you don’t need to obsess over it. I’m learning to do this with love now

I remember I lost my 1st dog 🐕 & was trying to manifest another dog similar to the 1st dog down to the "t" of their character, nothing happened 😢 I gave up 4 months later walked past a pet shop and there she was down to everything she looked liked, she grew up with the personality I desired, had the best 11 years with her, sadl she passed away, my point is as soon as I let go and forgot about it that's when she appeared, thanks for the reminder Aaron it's true what you're saying 🙏

Yes when I stopped looking for love it came. So true. It's just hard to detach after something happens. Need to get back to that energy.

Whenever you say “I worked in womens shoes” i must think of the character Al Bundy in the tv series Love and marriage.

I was checking the "someone i like" socials every 5 minutes when I saw the notification for this video LOL definitely a sign. Indeed, you can't achieve anything if you are attached to it, It's essential to let it go.

That happened to me. I was looking for apartment for sooo long and when i gave up on it, it came. Same with love and a car. As soon as l'm not in to it, it comes along. Detachment.

I’m not sure if the language was the best one here. This is a quantum universe, so whatever you focus on, you get more of it, it expands. With that said, if you are embodying the feelings of not having it yet, then you match that frequency. If we take what Neville Goddard says about being in the feeling of already having it. It doesn’t mean you are fully detached, but the attachment that comes from whatever you desire creates the amazing feelings of already experiencing that reality. Attachment only creates suffering if you are not embodying the feelings of already having it… which is the same as being in the desired reality.

So true!! I’m going to stop looking to grow my YouTube channel and just have fun making the videos and try to make them more quality with each one ❤

So true! I had enough obsessing over a specific (major) thing this week and it instantly manifested after months of trying 😍

I have really focused on growing my channel and I keep begging people to subscribe but they are not... Also I realise that I keep trying to start up romantic relationship but each time I call any lady I took the contact the vibes go down😅😅😅 it's time to stop focusing on the things I want😅😅 Let's practice Aron's advice ♥️♥️♥️