10 Tactics to Put a Narcissist in Their Place

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I've tried all of this, for many years, and it is exhausting. None of this will work if you're dealing with someone with pathological narcissism. You, simply, cannot beat someone with pathological narcissism at his or her own game, and you will wear yourself out trying to. The only solution you have when dealing with a narcissist is to leave. I have been planning my escape for months. I cannot wait until I'm finally able to leave. I'm not even giving any warning. I'm just leaving.

I put my narcissist in his place, out of my life. The four years I've had without him are the best I've had since I met him. Life is wonderful!

Ignore narcissists COMPLETELY with no exception, it drives them absolutely crazy but is fun to watch ! Excellent video 👍

When dealing with narcissism, you should know that it’s not personal. “It isn’t personal” is one of those cliches used to cushion all kinds of bad actions taken by people who need an out for being immoral, but in this case it actually gets near the truth. Narcissists don’t know how to love or be a friend; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissist value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing. They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection. Moreover, People wonder why they end up hurt, seriously hurt, and even killed for their own actions. Cheating is a choice and there’s simply a lot of ignorance in the process.... Thank you so much for helping me out Barryinvestigation@gmail. com. Your advice and services helped me so much. You are a lifesaver !!! The information you gave me about my cheating partner when you gave me access to his phone was everything I needed to get,.. thank you very much..

Block and delete them. That’s the only correct place for a narcissist. Periodt.

1-call them by their name 2-remind them to stick to the subject 3-if they attack you, do not attack them back. No trigger with an asshole. 4-do not take responsibility for their emotion. Their emotions have nothing to do with u. 5-until they stop attacking you, do not talk to them 6-do not give them excuses 7-keep track of communication with them 8-do not be afraid and what they might do. 9-do not let let them be the center of your universe 10-do not let them rush you 11-learn to say no.

The only way you can put narcissists "in their place" is to get away from them and never contact them again. They are toxic and incurable!

The worst thing you can do a narcissist,is ignore what they say. Narcissists can't stand not being heard.

1. Call them by their name 2. Remind them to stick to the subject 3. Don’t take responsibility for their emotions 4. Don’t talk until they stop attacking you 5. Don’t deceive yourself 6. Call them out on their deception 7. Don’t be afraid 8. Don’t let them be the center of your universe 9. Don’t be rushed or pressured 10. Learn how to say no

Dr. Phil advised: Don't try to fix them. It is above your pay grade. Stay away. Disengage. Save yourself.

The only way to take control from a narcissist is to get yourself from their domain first. You wont be able to figure out anything until and unless you are out of the hellish world. I will tell you one of my favourite stories. Once a King was too disturbed by everything that was happening around him. He felt as if no one was loyal to him and he was always afraid of his kingdom being attacked by perpetrators. He lost his sleep and his life had become hell. So he thought of taking a brief sojourn in the countryside. He passed through lush green fields and picturesque landscapes. The silent breeze that brushed through his hair filled his heart with joy. That is when he saw a farmer who was putting fence around his farmland. But his farmland had weeds all over and they hardly had any crops. This intrigued the King. He asked the farmer as to why was he putting a fence around the farm when the farm itself was covered with weeds. To this the farmer said that the farm was his own so he could get rid of the weeds whenever he liked. But he cant stop the stray dogs from running over his fields and destroying them. That is why he was putting the fence. To stop the stray dogs from venturing into the field. Once he was very assured about the security of his fields he can work on clearing the weeds and planting crops. On hearing this the King somewhat got the answer which he had been searching for. The human mind is also like the field. You cant control assholes from fiddling with your mind or saying bullshit. But you can definitely put a fence ( figuratively) so that these assholes cant influence you. And until and unless you dont put a fence you can never work on yourself. Once you have distanced yourself from toxic people then you can work on the healing process. Same is the case with narcs. Narcs are these stray dogs who suck your energy emotionally. They play mind games for fun because their mind wants melodrama. They hurt the very people who love them. So total isolation from these narcs is absolutely essential for the well being of your Mind. Once you are out of their mind games you can take decisions rationally. Narcs try to drain you emotionally. So everytime you respond to their low vibrations you tend to come to their level. But when you react confidently without panicking and without responding to their negative vibrations that is when you Win. When someone realises that you arent being influenced or being manipulated by their actions they will get tired of it. And after cutting them off completely from your lives you should work on your healing process. Work on clearing your mental clutter and keep yourself preoccupied. Read books and most importantly try to find your Purpose in life. When you find your Purpose you will be able to bear any pain in this World. Most importantly help others in need. When you find someone else who is stuck with a narc help them to get out of that. I feel this is the way to take control from a narcissist. P.S: I hardly find people around me who know about emotional abuse. But I think everyone should read and know about it. In today’s mean world you will find a lot of people who try to influence you or demoralise you using the sweetest of words. Its about identifying these covert manipulators and distancing yourself from them. I have immense respect for people who have survived narcissistic partners. They happen to be the most strongheaded and emotionally stable people you can come across. I learn a lot of things from them. Truly the broken will always be the most beautiful. What ever you do, don’t attempt to tail your spouse in the hopes of catching him or her cheating. Get a professional to do it for you Metaspyhub@gmail. com Ethical remote App - particularly if you need this evidence to file for divorce and damages.

I fell victim to a narcissist and then one day, I turned the table on them. I lost my fear, I locked away my emotion and took control of the situation. The narcassist did not like that one bit, but I stuck to my guns, I did call them out on their lies and I did that in front of others and that person could not handle that I did that. I was told to get out of their life. I smiled and waved goodbye and today I have peace. If I can do it, so can you.

It’s not called relationship it’s manipulationship

I couldn't believe how accurate these points are, thank you 😊. Married for 31 yrs and she hid these traits for the first 15yrs. These are wicked people and carry a curse.

Most of these tips actually give the narcissist too much attention and rob your time. No contact is the only solution.

ignore ignore ignore ignore file a retraining order ignore ignore ignore that's how you deal with a narcissist

Walk away don't bother putting the narc in its place, don't interact with them focus on yourself the narc hates that plus it's self empowering that's amazing feeling and it works

First step is Knowing what a narcissist is. Second step is identifying a narcissist. Third step is using effective actions to counter a narcissist. Best methods that have worked for me personally and comfortably are, ignore them, converse with others as if there not there, look straight at them calling them by name,DONT ever show or emit weakness. Be of your own will power at all times,laughter will make them self destruct. YOU have the power, keep it! Be careful whom you talk to and what you say, narcissist use back stabbing channels and are highly manipulative to weak minded unsuspecting people around them.

I love that comment about the zoo. “Don’t feed the animals”❤ that really puts into perspective