Carly Pearce - What He Didn't Do (Official Music Video)

I cried to this song for months after splitting up with my narcissist husband of 12 months. Divorce is now final. This video is great.

Walking away from 16 years of narcissistic abuse. I come here for a reminder to keep walking away silently to a better place

My first time hearing this song on the radio and I BURST into tears. Sobbing, wracking, tears. This is my marriage. My 17 year marriage. Sometimes it’s just enough looking them in the face knowing you’re their last choice.

This song speaks about my relationship with my narcissistic husband of 6 years of being married and 8 years together with 2 beautiful little girls.. I cry every time I listen to it.... It was a plutonic love story that was supposed to stay forever... I tried to save our marriage dozens of times but I eventually gave up.. I just filed for divorce... Wish me peace and healing whoever reading this.. 😞

"Be a man of his word" ....the weight those words carry my heart drops every time i hear her sing those words...

This song makes me even more committed to doing right by my wife and (soon to be) three daughters. Tragically beautiful.

I used to dislike country music until I met my husband. Country music as one of his favourite genre I believe because of the heartfelt stories it tells. We were married for for 24 years and had five kids. We split up nearly nine months ago. It still hurts like hell. He just sent me the link to this song and after hearing it I begin to think that maybe he finally gets it. I it hurts , it hurts so so bad . And I just don't know what do right now. Praying for clarity clarity and sending love and encouragement to all women and men out there who are hurting. May we all heal soon and find the right people will treat us right and hold on tight❤

This song came out as I was leaving my 29 year marriage, I kept what he did private, and this song hit home to me. You can hear the pain in her voice. Great song, a great artist. Also listen to DAY one by her.. Another great one!

This is a song that has hit home for me! I was abused mentally and physically! And was so scared to leave, but I finally got the courage, from the grace of god! And was able to leave and hide out till it was all over with! May you have faith and live!

Wow I love this song. Brings many memories back from my first Husband. We met in High School and got married at 17. Had a great few years together, but Army life changed him. This song speaks to my heart and the pain he caused me when he had with an affair with a high ranked Army's wife, that devastated me and our two girls. I never told anyone what happened, till it came out around town from hearsay. My Mom kept saying tell what he did to you. I wasn't gonna sling his name through the mud. That's not who I am. And this song came on the radio my Daughter heard it said"Mom here's your song. The one like what Dad did to you." I love the tenderness she sings the song as if she's lived this too. We Do Survive!

Wow, "what he didn’t do". Thats soooo hard. The emotion in her voice just gets me. I finally left an 18 year marriage. I don't know how many times i have listened to this song, but i cry every time.

I love this song ... just left my narcissistic abusive womanizing husband after 5 years still going through the divorce ... this song has helped me cope more then you can imagine... it's a song to live by ..

This song (and album) is absolutely incredible. The lyrics speak truth to millions of listeners that relate to a loved one that didn't show up for the relationship. The real and rawness of this song clearly has struck a nerve and the video helps to bring that emotion to the visual we all had in our head. Keep up the amazing country music Carly. The genre needs you.

Not a marriage but this is why my last relationship ended. Beautifully written song and just hit every chord for me.

Just separated from my husband recently. This hits home. He didn't care about me.

Have an amazing day anyone who is reading this

This song hits home. I remember the day it came out. I was going though relationship struggles when it came out. It made me realize that the person I was with was not the right one…… now I’m happy in a relationship with somebody who does put me first and treats me right and fights for me. Thank you Carly for putting this song out

This song came out at the right time for me. I have recently split from my narcissist husband of 8 years, 11 years total and this song hits home

I was cleaning my house and listening to music and this song came on.......and.....I absolutely lost it!! Burst into tears with the mop in my hands and fell to the floor..... thank you Carly for your genuine, honest lyrics...I needed to hear this song but man I thought I was over most of the trauma I went through but I guess I still have some work to do to be better?!?

God this song hits different when you can relate😭