another...can it be?
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Published 2010-03-30
All Comments (6)
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....instinct. For me it has been easy to forget that and instead feel shame and self conscious around the fact that relating to other guys isn't "natural" for me. Thanks for posting! It's been nice to hear from you recently!
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you are certainly not alone my brother! I think in your last video you mentioned not wanting a bar buddy, and instead an actual friend who is intellectually stimulating and I find myself in the same boat, I am surrounding by guys who would love to invite me out to the bar or over for beers and that is just not what I am looking for, but other friendships I am having such a hard time finding and cultivating. I like how you pointed out that initially as children this was a natural innate...
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dude, were on the same brain wave. you're saying EVERYTHING i feel. seriously.
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same here. being post-transition (after 4yrs) and I still struggle to make guy friends.
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Since you are in College, look at the list of College student organizations. Try to find one or two organizations that you are interested in and that are mostly populated by males. An active rocket club or amateur radio club would be ideal. Regarding your friend that wants to go to a bar with you, why don't you suggest a pizza place or KFC ect.? If you are like me, you would enjoy eating and talking to someone in a well lit place where you can actually hear what the other person is saying
