There's no shame in taking care of your mental health | Sangu Delle

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Published 2017-05-26
When stress got to be too much for TED Fellow Sangu Delle, he had to confront his own deep prejudice: that men shouldn't take care of their mental health. In a personal talk, Delle shares how he learned to handle anxiety in a society that's uncomfortable with emotions. As he says: "Being honest about how we feel doesn't make us weak — it makes us human."

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All Comments (21)
  • @GenJotsu
    A weak man will brag that he can be strong. A stronger man will admit that he can be weak.
  • @Faith-sr8zw
    As a black African, it's incredibly hard for people to seek help for mental health issues. This is a BREAKTHROUGH
  • @KRGraphicsCG
    I'm feeling this talk. Without mental health, EVERYTHING ELSE BREAKS DOWN. When I deal with stress, I distance myself from the stress...take a vacation, take time for self. And be with family.
  • @willownight5838
    Great message that applies to everyone. Men especially need to hear this.
  • @SoniaSephia
    Just 2 days I nearly ended my life. This was my 3rd attempt within 7 months. Yesterday I made a appointment for a therapist that specializes in cases like mine. And now this video came into my notifications. :)
  • @acethetics3878
    My heart sank when the audience clapped for when he said African men don’t express or process their feelings at 2:11
  • @Jaznellow
    Great message for anyone. Mental health is still very much stigmatized in many parts of the world, even as the number of those living with mental health issues increase.
  • @risika
    I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons ex. OCD for me). I’ve had to overhaul how I approach taking care of my brain (exercise, journaling, studying etc) by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on youtube channel. Historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small, consistent small effort everyday. And its crazy how it adds up.
  • @AraceliLS
    This had a huge impact on my heart. Thank you sir for a much needed message
  • @chuuuckb
    "Being honest about how we feel does not make us weak, it makes us human" SO TRUE. Thank you Sangu Delle.
  • @BenceIlles
    We need people like him in every african country.
  • @rrbaggett7
    What a beautiful talk given by a lovely human being. I've watched countless hours of documentaries & talks on mental illness & suicide. I've attended university lectures on human psychology & read dozens of books. And yet, this man's vulnerability, courage, & honesty brought tears to my eyes. I lost my father to suicide when he was only 47 & I was 24. I had no idea he had been suffering in silence. He never got to meet any of his grandchildren or my husband. Untreated mental illness causes unspeakable pain; it can also lead to death. Please speak up & speak out -- you might save lives.
  • @LindaMitchell
    Unfortunately, the stigma of mental health is pervasive in the Black community in the States but I think it's changing. The younger generation is willing to talk about it openly and seek help.
  • Beautifully articulated. Such an important message that impacts millions of people worldwide.
  • @LetsDoBetterNow
    People think that talking and dealing with mental health is something taboo but we all need help and should speak to somebody. This is a great video
  • @pipparose_
    I know that i cannot entirally relate due to my circumstances, however as somebody who's diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, i found your talk so meaningful, especially when you spoke about being there for your friend, so many people are quick to judge and label people as crazy once they feel the label gives them license to. Great talk, thank you.
  • @Dylan-qk8ss
    It is important to understand yourself emotionally, if you don't give it a watch.
  • @DA040889
    Real talk, respect for the shining eyes of those who serv with passion.