I Wasted My 20s 😔: Lessons So You Don't Do the Same 🌟

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Published 2024-04-12
In this video, I'm getting real and raw about my journey through my 20s – the good, the bad, and the downright ugly. Join me as I reflect on the mistakes I made, the lessons I learned, and how you can avoid falling into the same traps.
Whether you're in your 20s yourself or just looking for some wisdom to carry into the future, this video is for you. Hit that play button and let's dive into the highs and lows of my journey, and how you can make the most of yours.

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All Comments (21)
  • I love what you convey and the way you express yourself, continue like this girl !
  • @fatimaali6845
    I am 22 years old and back when i see myself when I was a teenager ,I wish I had more confidence in taking decisions and connecting more with my inner self.
  • @lena12019
    perfect timing! as a 22yo in my last year of uni, i've been feeling lost, clueless, losing hope little by little. I feel like at my age i have nothing sorted out. no job, don't know what i'll do after graduation, wanting to get married but i dont have hopes that i will, while I also try to learn more about islam through an online school. I need to rewatch this video enough times for your words to sink in
  • @Vxruxxss
    I just turned 30 and I feel the same way. I feel like im just starting my life
  • I know this was intended for sisters, but I still took benefit from it as a 26M. I am trying to figure out how to not waste the next 4 years the way I felt I did the last 4.
  • @ulama7828
    Muslims seriously need to socialize with other muslims around their age (Islamic events/volunterring etc)
  • @user-zm3no5xb6t
    I wish I could be assertive and have boundaries and say no to my parents so I could have more freedom from them. Many things I did just to satisfy them & I got too dependent on them. Now I’m miserable
  • @BlacFireSan
    I regret how much time during Covid lock down I wasted. I was a bum. So much goals to achieve but yet no effort.
  • I lovee the last point, Hana. Our 20s shouldn't be "The Period that Decides whether or not I get Married", or the "Road to Marriage". Although I'm still in my 20s, I regret wasting one second worrying about taking on that kind of responsibility, or thinking of marriage as a prize. Please talk more about this in the future, so other young girls will not waste their time just sitting idle and desperate
  • @binttahmet
    As salamu alaikum sister, I am 17 years old, even though I’m still young I feel like I’ve already wasted a lot of my life. I know I have more potential especially in these years we’re meant to take advantage of. I really appreciate this advice and the advice of sisters in the comments. And I love your videos. JazakiAllahu khayr 🩷
  • @umamah5296
    YES love this video Hana!! And another one that's perfect for me personally; turning 23 in a month so I'm still in my early twenties here, and I don't take it for granted that I have sisters / mentors like you who can advise us on how to enjoy our 20s < 3 A lot of what you talked about are things I currently struggle with here and there. Soo reassuring to know I wasn't alone and what you took from those years. P.S. A bit of general feedback: loved how you kept the video concise and sweet! P.P.S Any videos/sources on how to separate your emotions from actions please? xD Definitely one of things I currently struggle most with
  • @beingclaire_.
    Turned 20 in march and also a fellow revert. Very excited about this video ❤
  • @sanachan184
    Alhamdulillah As I am in my early twenties your video all of a sudden shows on my feed it was the topic about (what was I thinking) I was in a lot of pressure because everyone around me is getting married even those who are younger then me Masha'Allah nonetheless I was overwhelmed and anxious because people around me are urging me to get married they're saying that I am taking to much time choosing someone that I want I won't find and all anyways but Alhamdulillah found this beautiful channel hope to learn more from you sister jazakumullahu khair May Allah almighty reward you immensely.
  • @samiyagani22
    Me too. I’ve struggled with a lot and hope god can help get through these challenges and moves forward and be the best I can be inshallah❤
  • @Ky-bt4ez
    I just turned 27 and i just wish i started my self development journey earlier ps i started last year. But Allah knows best