Our Story

Love this real honesty about marriage, it seems like the church paint a fairytale picture of marriage which is so far from the truth. Please interview Heather & Cornelius Lindsey in this style, it's perfect.

Taking notes.

Definitely see a lot couples even Christian couples who seem to make Their marriage seem All glitz and glam. Someone said marriage should thrive in a healthy way at the same time stay strong

I was/am this man. I Loved/love her to death, habitually loyal, do anything for her, but I lived in a prison of 1000 daily microfears (some very real based on life experience, some manifested based on “what if”). I projected onto her and it pushed her way.... I admire Mr. Chandler’s transparency, humility, and willingness to share the hard days in a otherwise romance novel laced world. I am very thankful his wife was gracious enough to humble herself is the peacemaker despite his constant cynical attacks. God bless her heart. Very warming and hopeful story. Please pray for my anxiety, fear issues, hardheartedness, selfless emotional responses, and for our reconciliation. Thank you.

Wow, these 2 blossomed in so many ways in their walk with God and their marriage. There's peace and harmony in their togetherness, which is so beautiful to me💕

As the mother of a 17 y/o daughter, and just as a human against pedophilia, I don’t find anything romantic, godly, sweet, or good about a grown man in a position of authority deciding to groom a minor to become his wife. If this happened in the work place, it would be unacceptable. A 23 year old man preying on a minor under his care is vile and disgusting, I don’t care how many times he takes God’s name in vain by claiming “God told him to.” It literally makes me sick to my stomach.

Thanks for sharing your story Matt and Lauren. So grateful. May God continue to bless you both. x

I pray for their marriage to be safe from time to time. I so love what God does in people <3 I look up to them.

Two imperfect people seeking a perfect GOD.

Perfect. Perfect. Thanks for having the humility and Faith to reflect Christ's love, influence and power in each others lives/family. Each other's simple truth's shine brightly. Thanks, guys...

i love how honest you are! thank you for not sugar coating anything!

2:33 . "If he is pleased with me, then I know I'm ok with God" Very healthy relationship right there :) (sarcasm)... Too bad we can't see the dislikes.

Beautiful family, love the humilty and love they share and radiate. Just finish your book Pastor Matt, love what you and your family do to encourage me and my future family (Getting married soon). Love you man, be blessed!!!

I like what she says at the end . "He refused to let us coast.. he wanted more for us"

I love them both! Their testimony and Mingling of Souls has blessed me so much and encouraged me to continue to wait on and trust in the Lord for a husband ❤❤❤

Micro judging is a whirlwind of madness.. At the tail end of an 18yr relationship....Its shocking the madness we put ourselves and others through....and mostly all based on a delusional fear... Recently come to Christ and can see the afore with clarify through God. Only Christ can save us! Only God,and the holy spirit confirms this.

There’s something about him that I don’t trust.

God is so good. He's so faithful. When we are weak He is strong. Praise God!!!!!! Matt Chandler God was and is faithful to you because you lift your sins and transgressions up to the light! Amen!

life goals. one day.

beautiful