We’re One Step Away From Canceling Our IVF Transfer

Deep breath you guys. You’re are so close. My wife and I know from experience , the hardest thing is patience and faith. From start to finish it took us 11 years 3 months and 21 days to get to the birth of our son. All because of the curvy road of ivf. Even then he was 29 weeks and had a extended stay in the nicu. Y’all are way ahead of us already. Lean on each other always and try to remember that this journey is based on the love you two have for each other and will grow overwhelmingly when your precious baby arrives. Hang in there.

The hardest thing about IVF is patience and faith in your doctors. Speaking as a mom of two IVF babies, suffering from endometriosis, having 2 laparoscopic surgeries and being a doctor myself. Hang in there guys! You are doing such a hard job in staying positive! Often times it just sucks! Sending love and support from Austria! ❤️❤️❤️

Don’t give up! A lady that I follow (Trinny Woodall, CEO and founder of Trinny London) had 17 ivf rounds before a successful birth. She has one daughter who I believe is now twenty. She never gave up and was finally blessed with a healthy child. You’re such a delightful couple and are so deserving of good fortune. I’m really rooting for you. 🙏🙏

I did my egg retrieval at 35, but Dr recommended to go and get a polyp removed, before the transfer. My surprise was that it wasn't only a polyp, I had a 9cm cyst on my ovary, which was removed along with my whole tube/ovary. All these things were done in a matter of 1 year and 3 months. Finally I could have my transfer last year and this January I gave birth to my baby boy! Don't get discourage, have patience. At the end everything will be worth it. Sending lots of prayers to you!

Would it be possible for you to go to Italy NOW and have whatever needs to be done (surgery, different meds, etc.) there instead of here? I'm thinking everything would go smoother, better, safer there! 🙏🙏🙏😇🥰

Y'all are keeping a happy, even-keeled attitude which is a huge plus. Unfortunately, the medical professionals aren't as invested as y'all. It's really sad that they make it so much more difficult than it needs to be. Ironically, after all this effort y'all put into this, if you finally came to the conclusion that you would adopt instead, you'd probably end up getting pregnant. That's the way life works.

Dear friends, thank you so much for this update, although I'm typing this through my tears for the "turbulent ride" you need to endure. Please, keep your faith and know everyone is praying and wishing your dreams come true! 😇🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏

For the flight, don't panic. Now with the Italian train from Paris to Venice, it's way easier and cheaper. Fly up to Paris then book your train ticket from paris "gare de Lyon" train station up to venice

I really pray this works out for you guys. I am also very sad right now. My second embryo transfer ended in miscarriage a few days ago. So im feeling frustrated and sad too. I really pray for us all to be blessed with babies soon. ❤️

This is so stressful for you both. I’m so sorry for this news. Prayers for better news.❤️🙏

I'm so surprised you can't get that in the US, we're using it in Canada. Sending you strength and compassion, hoping you can get this next chapter started soon!

Why are they draining the cyst instead of removing it completely? Fluid will continue to fill up in it if you don't remove the actual cyst sac!

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this 😢

So sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers for you ❤

Have you heard of Dr. Poppy? She's a doctor here in the states (she's in Ozark, MO) that has helped a lot of "lost cause" cases have a baby/ babies. She does virtual consults and appointments as well.

My suggestion after splitting time between Paris and NYC for over 48 years and navigating the French and US health systems. Certain meds are not available in the US. Get everything in writing from the surgeon who operated in January and even have her call Italy directly . Then fly to Italy and stay there for the medication and the procedure. When there are complications , it is impossible to deal with both Italian and US systems . I speak from experience. Don’t give up just because of the bureaucracy! ,

Sending prayers and good vibes from California. We got you! When your kids are grown they will look back at these videos and know how much they were loved and wanted - even before they were conceived. And they will admire your methodic tenacity and creativity! Best wishes for a blessed outcome.

The American healthcare system is hell-bent on keeping us sick. It's profitable.

Jessi, I just want to give you a huge hug. I can see your eyes are different in this video. Turbulence is common and definitely scary. But in the end the plane always lands where it's intended to go. You two deserve the best, and you have so many people sending love your way. Sending you comfort ❤

I didn't do IVF. I took only pills and went to an endocrinologist in the Houston Texas medical center. It was a long time ago. I ended up having two children. Now I'm a grandma of an 8 year old. It was such a a crazy time in my life it felt like a rollercoaster. When I got pregnant it felt like the rollercoaster going backwards. My second pregnancy...came on it's own. Hang in there. ❤ From Texas.