Newborn Products You ACTUALLY Need (& some you really don't)

as a mama who has lost a baby to sids, I highly disagree with many of the sleep related suggestions. I am admittedly a little overprotective but if you were in my shoes you'd understand. New moms should definitely do their research before using products such as weighted sleep sacks, swaddles for that long, the snuggle me for sleeping, and co-sleeping. THAT SAID All the other advice here is great. I still love the videos and will be back for more.

Safe sleep practices include no swaddles after baby is able to roll over on their own and no blankets or items in the crib until after age 1. A mobile baby in a half swaddle can easily come out of the swaddle and be at risk of asphyxia if an adult doesn’t notice. Sleep sacks are a safer alternative for this interval.

Im currently 36 weeks pregnant & I just laugh at some of these overpriced baby products. I feel like companies really try to take advantage of families at this time , telling them they need stuff that they really don’t.

It's great to see what works for different families. It does bear mentioning though that at minimum, all you need for a baby is somewhere for them to sleep, something for them to wear, some way to transport them, some way to clean/change them, and some way to feed them. Babies needn't be expensive, we got almost everything we use secondhand, and we don't use a lot of the 'must-have' items. The ones that have been game-changing for us are double stroller (secondhand) and portable changing mat. The double stroller came with a bassinet option, which we use for downstairs naps. For nights, we have a secondhand next-to-me crib and replaced the mattress. Our cloth nappies are secondhand. Secondhand carrier and bouncer also get a lot of use. We do use sleep sacks as both kids wriggled out of muslin swaddles after about 6 weeks old. I just use my pre-baby backpack as a nappy bag, no need for a special one.

While the SnuggleMe is nice to set baby in while you’re watching them, it is NOT safe for night time sleep. Parents please do not put ANYTHING extra in the crib/bassinet with your baby especially something padded. Also, if you choose to co sleep, please do not swaddle and follow the 7 steps to safe sleep. My advice as a mom of 4. Invest in your car seats, strollers, and baby mattress. Things I used with all 4 of my children: 1. Mamaroo 2. Burp cloths 3. Binky 4. Playmat 5. Swaddle blankets or halo swaddle sleepsack until they can roll and then a sleepsack after. AAP recommends no loose blankets until age 1. 6. Sound machine (hatch rest+ is what I recommend because if power goes out it lasts for 12 hours)

Cloth diapers are our must have item. We’re 36 weeks with baby 3 and cloth diapers have saved us so much money. They’re expensive, but a one time purchase that last forever if you care for them right.

Weighted sleep sacks are thankfully no longer recommended for safe sleep. I never understood why I would put a WEIGHT on my little baby's delicate chest. I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure even the AAP has updated their guidelines to say not to use weighted sleep sacks. Also the snuggle me, a suffocation risk that's easily avoided.

Sleepsacks are great for older babies especially if they're climbers to prevent jailbreaks from the cot 😂

Such a great list! Just FYI, though the Snuggle Me and most loungers aren't approved for safe sleep. xx

It is crazy how must haves can differ because for me sleep sacks and the tub insert are 100% must haves! The sleep sacks are so cozy and don’t fall off (I keep the house a little chilly at night). We use them until our babies are toddlers! Also I just can’t shower holding a baby, for me it feels like holding a big bar of soap- they are so slippery! We love our baby tub!

Items I do use : - baby bath insert (one for newborns and one for when they can sit up but aren’t sturdy) - carriers - swaddle blankets (not the Velcro ones tho) - breastfeeding pillow - baby bouncer - baby saline mist spray and snot sucker - diapers and wipes - boobs

Done with the new born stage not having more babies, and still want to watch this video 😂 that's how much I love your content!

I personally do love sleep sacks, but more so for winter time with older babies and toddlers. (Like 9 months or older). My kids kick off their blankets and get cold and our apartment isn’t insulated enough for the harsh winters we get. It’s peace of mind more than anything for me. I do love Halo’s fleece sleep sack swaddle though. My son loved being swaddle, my daughter hated it, and I used it a lot with both of the. That being said, I would never have purchased it new myself. It’s sooo expensive. My hospital actually gave it to me (they handed me a brand new one in its package to take home, so don’t worry, I didn’t steal it).

Delilah saying boogers will never not be funny to me! 🤣

I really enjoy your videos and your perspective and thank you for this video! But, i think you need a disclaimer that this is your personal opinion and that parents need to do their own research (I know this should be very obvious) but A LOT of your sleep preferences are actually considered dangerous and advised AGAINST. Fortunately you haven't had any issues (I assume), but there is definite risks for others who may blindly follow your 'advice'. For example, baby shouldn't sleep in the Snuggle Me (even the manufacture states it is unsafe for sleep), weighted blankets/sleep sacks are not recommended as they can cause breathing difficulties in some babies (linked to increase risk of SIDS), co-sleeping can be safe, but a lot of precautions need to be taken to ensure it remains safe or else it can easily become very dangerous for baby. A loose swaddle can potentially be harmful a) baby rolls and is unable to use the assistance of their legs to help roll back, b) swaddle comes loose and become a smothering risk. Absolutely nothing wrong with doing what works for your baby/family, but I caution people to PLEASE DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH before deciding what potential risks you are comfortable taking!

Thank you!! I am that first time mom totally lost in the world of baby products. This is so helpful!

I agree with many of these! I do think the Diaper Genie is a bit outdated, but I also think a diaper specific container of some sort is entirelyyyyy necessary. The Ubbi is amazing because you can use literally any bag you have in your home (we use regular garbage bags) and it traps the odor inside the can. Even taking the trash out daily does not keep the diapers from being super stinky, so that would be my only addition! :)

thank you for making these videos, im looking forward to motherhood, it's nice to learn in advance. i LOVE the aesthetic of your house, minimal but quality wooden furniture and art. lots of love!

Delilah, THANK YOU! Been watching you since before Theo arrived. We’re the same age and my husband and I are officially 22 weeks with baby number 1! Sitting here perfecting my registry, pausing, searching, and adding as you go through each item. THANKS MAMA!💗

Delilah ❤ your videos brighten my day! I pray you all are well ❤❤